First find diffrernt housemates. have a Doctor check you over. a external catherter could help you keep the sheet washing down. I still have a problem with bedwetting. the Doctors said that it is from a brain disorder caused by brain damage from when I was a kid. as a kid I fell and still have scars from where I cracked my head open. the Doctors said that this can not be treated with drugs or a operation. I think the hardest part is when I get rushed to the hospital and be informed that I have to stay a few days. I get the Doctor off to the side and tell them that I have a hard time controlling my bladder when I sleep.