Mandy, I understand your problem. I have been a bedwetter all my life, never being dry for a more than a fews days at a time. I have never been able to establish a long-term relationship with a man as eventually when it is getting serious I let him know that I have a problem at night and that I keep a plastic sheet under my ordinary sheet in case of an accident. They usually pretend to understand, but when we have slept together for a few nights and wake up in the morning with the bed soaking, they usually make polite excuses and I never see them again. Incidentally I do not use disposbale nappies, preferring instead the older cotton towelling with a plastic pants. This is usually adequate to retain all the pee I pass at night with only a little leaking. When I was lucky enough to have a man I did not put on these humiliating clothes with disasterous results. Love, Emma