I live in Ohio and am a chronic bedwetter. I started wearing diapers after I was married as the bedwetting from childhood reappeared. I have been wearing diapers to bed for about 11 years now and have grown quite accustomed to it. I wear diapers in the evenings and when we go out. I always wear one when I travel as it is too painful to wait till a restroom is available. My wife is very understanding of this and always changes my diaper before I go to bed. I wear the Molicare Super Plus most of the time, but will wear a Tena if going out for short times. I have tried most every diaper on the market I think and settled on these two. I go anywhere I want and wear my diaper as though nothing is wrong. Niether of my parents know and I have stayed at their house and worn my diaper with no notice being taken. It does become a way of life after so many years. I am just greatful there are diapers available that are near leak proof!