Hello jill, my name is chris and i am 38. after a car accident in 1983 when i was 19, i started wetting at night. i bought baby diapers at first, but i soaked those and went to attends... time when by and my bvladder got better. i only needed diapers it seemed if i was going to drink or have a selep over.. and yes it was extremly hard to date as most females freaked out over the diapers... most of my 20's i stayed single.. i fiqured no woman would ever want me.. i married at age 29/divorced at 31.. yes in due to my bladder getting worse and i started down the diaper road/24-7 in diapers... my then wife found me a sexual turn off and said our bedroom smelled like a baby nursery.. (diapers/powder/lotion).. well for me i feel more secure having a diaper on... i leak urine at any time.. diapers are more conveint especially if i am traveling. shopping and definatley at work...as for waking up wet, its really no big deal... a wet diaper is so much more better than a wet bed/sheets.. i have learned to accept me for who i am, and yes in diapers... take cre and keep in touch.