Jill, I have been a bedwetter for the last 6 years due to damage caused by a car accident. 1. At first it was a little hard to accept that I would wet every night. Now I see it as just something I do. It is almost a normal thing for me. 2. Being in a wet diaper in the morning is better than a wet bed. At times it makes me feel more safe. I'm not sure why. 3. I think now I would much rather be in a diaper as to wet on myself. Diapers have become a normal part of my life. Some things you just have to accept. 4. I think the hardest part about being in diapers was dealing with the shame. With the help of my wife I have over come the shame in some parts. I hope this has helped. If you would like to E-mail me let me know and I will post my E-mail. John