Lisa, No need to get too upset. My husband was a bed wetter when we met and still is. Our two sons have inherited his bedwetting so I have three men in diapers at home. It seems odd to people who don't have to deal with bedwetting and incontinence, but at our house it is a normal part of our daily routine. My husband is also a phobic about public restrooms and is more comfortable in diapers so he wears Protection Plus Extended Wear pullup briefs during the day as does our youngest son (12y/o)who is a bit lazy and like his father about using public bathrooms. Fortunately our 17 y/o is no longer having daytime problems, at least no so much that he has to wear daytime protection. But diapers really aren't a big deal once you get into a routine, seriously, I don't think anything of it hardly. Sandra