saw your poast and wanted to let you know that you are not alone. try to think of it as a bladder controw problem. thats what I do and what I tell the doctors when I have to stay in a hospital. you might want to try a external catherter for your problem. I hope that if you talk to a doctor that the doctor will tell you of what might be able to help you. but you will find that you will end up with what ever works the best for you.