scott, listen don't get down on yourself i am with you i have to wear diapers 24-7 i used to be only a bed wetter but i found after i was 19 years old that when i was in college i finally broke down and bought depends fitted briefs the overnight type and they work great i am 29 years old now and i am still trying to cope with the diaper issue myself but please if you need me to lend you a ear to talk feel free to email me at airportlou@yahoo.com you will be allright you are not alone in this if people are rude and ignorant they are no good to you understand. Keep the chin up and welcome to the club you will not be alone in this at all i am here for you.