hey wearing diapers is not the end of the world i wear depend fitted briefs the overnight ones 24-7 i cannot tell when i pee and i pee anytime so please do not think you are less of a man. email me for comfort at airportlou@yahoo.com i do know people can be really harsh and cruel to you I have been laughed at and not picked for certian things because i wet myself i am 29 6'6 and 320 pounds and in good health i am mobile and can do almost anything anyone can do just i am wetter than they are. Keep the chin up ok. we are going to be ok.