Hi dave, I too have the same problem, I wear terry nappies and plastic pants to bed as I invariably wet at night. I had a girlfreind a couple of years ago for a while, we parted for reasons other than my problem. When I plucked up the courage to tell her about it, she was very understanding when she realised that she wouldn't have to sleep in a wet bed with me. She got quite used to seeing me in nappies and said I looked cute!!! I agree that it is a great problem finding a girlfreind when you have a problem like ours, it would be nice to have one of these dating sites specially for male and females who suffer from wetting problems. I am sure were not the only ones in the UK because before I found the web I thought I was alone. There must be thousands like us but are too shy or embarrassed to talk.